Featured Coffee – Simple Maple Latte
Have you ever reviewed an attendees (or presenter) list, recognized a particular name, and your energy level dropped?
Or, you have an upcoming training session, and you know one person who always disrupts your meetings will be there?
Well, as professionals, we know how to behave in unpleasant situations; however, this blogger shares what’s “Inside the mind of a medical coding auditor.”
What was I really thinking and feeling when I had to interact with an unreasonable coder? Relax with a cup of Simple Maple Latte, and I’ll tell you what I really thought.
I had a training session scheduled with a group and a week before the meeting, they included another coder to the meeting list.
I experienced a challenging interaction previously with this coder, and I absolutely did not want her in my session. She was so disruptive and disrespectful I had to end the session early because it was not productive.
I enjoy interactive sessions. The more questions asked, the better the meeting is to me. This coder, however, will interrupt me mid syllable and say things like, ‘that’s not true’ or ‘I disagree.’ When asked what is not valid or why she disagrees, she won’t respond. It’s incredibly frustrating to me.
As a professional, I have to place my mask on and maintain my professionalism. Over coffee with you, I can share what’s going on behind the mask. I have to resist the urge to stop the session and press this coder until she put into words what’s not true or why she disagrees. I know she doesn’t have answers. She’s just a cynical and insecure person. She feeds off of negativity, and her mission seems to be to spread her negative energy throughout the room. I don’t like her attitude, and if given a choice, I would not allow her to attend my sessions.
My professional side prohibits me from showing or expressing how I really feel. Here, I can remove the mask.
Thanks for joining me for coffee and allowing me to share what I really thought.